Embrace the New You- Let Go of the Past and the old You

“One problem with gazing too frequently into the past is that we may turn around to find the future has run out on us.”

Michael Cibenko quotes This has been an amazing year. I have grown so much and have been applying all the lessons I have learned from the mistakes or difficulties I have encountered. I realized that it's true when they say,"what don't kill you only make you stronger". Because there is a lesson in everything.  I absolutely love who I have become. It seems like I have been searching for this person for a long time and she have finally emerged. She is strong and ambitious and don't let the simple things get to her anymore. However, there are times when the past pull at me and wants my attention. It seems like it wants me to reminisce and have regrets. Sometimes I indulge but I know that if I keep focusing on the past I'm letting my present slip by.  This year I have lost friends and opportunities but I realize they are now in they past and are not for me. They were for the old me and I need to let go and move on. In time my new self will be presented with new friends and opportunities that are more suited for me. It's seem like my soul understand because I'm not sad. I know now that you have to love you self first and everything else will fall into place. You have to fight hard and never stop trying to be the person you only dreamt you can be. While on this journey you will lose relationships, love ones, jobs and opportunities but please remember it's for your greater good. You may not see it now but one day you will realized that you have out-grown those peoples or situations and you are now opening yourself to embrace all the new good that is coming into you life.  Life is good and life is fair even if you're going thru changes remember that with change comes growth. With growth comes wisdom and with wisdom comes happiness.

Clean UP!!!!!!!!

Transform Your Life

From time to time it is good to clean up various areas of your life. This can be done several ways. The steps below allow you to free up energy which into can transform you life in a positive way

1. Clean Up Your Home - Do a thorough cleaning of your home. Throw away and donate things you no longer use, organize you closet, clean out the cobwebs etc.
Your home projects its own energy so a happy home can help you be a happier person.

2. Clean Out Your System- You can do a herbal cleanse or colon cleanse. This way you can rejuvenate your body.

3. Clean Out Your Mind - Take time out to mediate and quite your mind.

4. Clean Out Your Life - Get rid of negative people, let go of negative situation and move on.

5. Pray - Rejuvenate your soul by reinforcing your faith.

These simple steps can help you regain lost energy. By performing these steps you will surely see the difference in your life.

The Greatest Love of All: How to Love Yourself

THE GREATEST LESSON I HAVE LEARNED.....LOVE YOURSELF

There are many reasons why you may not love yourself but below is a list I have used to help me learn to love myself completely. Loving yourself in itself can be a journey. But remember you are all you have. Our true essence is love because we came from love.....GOD

1. Accept yourself completely.

Make a list of all the things you love about yourself and focus on them for a moment (maybe your a great cook, a great friend, or have beautiful eyes). Don't it feel good? Sometimes we are so focus on the negative we forget how great of a person we are. We all have flaws that's what make up unique and special.

2. Say I Love You...To Yourself

Every morning look in the mirror and tell yourself I love you. Sometimes I even say why or congrat myself on a job well done the day before. It may be hard at first but keep doing it.

3.Spend Time With Yourself

When you love someone you want to spend time with them right? So, spend time with yourself by doing things that makes you happy. You can go to the museum, catch a movie, go to the spa, or take a walk.

4. Start a Journal

This is the one thing above all that helps me the most. Because I get in touch with my thoughts. I get to express my true feeling. Even things that I don't feel comfortable sharing with others. A journal is your release system. With your journal you can say any and everything you like without worrying about being judged. Remember this journal is yours so make it yours. You can personalize your journal bt writing poetry or even drawing.

5. Let Go of the Past

Many times people or situations in our past have led us to think less of ourselves. You must release that pain that have imprisoned you. You must come to terms and accept the past and realize the past have no power over you.

6. Be Your Own Best Friend

Make sure you are always there for yourself. You must put yourself first. This is not selfish it's called self love. I love to help others but I learned if I don't help myself how can I help someone else? Congrat yourself when something great happen in your life. You must always want the best for yourself and take steps to acquire it while being your biggest cheerleader.

7. Date Your Self

If your looking for a relationship you have to remember you attract what you are. So you don't want to send out the vibration of desperation and loneliness. The Secret says you must act as if you already have it. So if you want a happy relationship then start by writing yourself love letters. You can buy yourself flowers. You can even take yourself out on the best date ever. Why wait for that one special person? Don't let pass you by.....you love yourself so act like it. They always say when you stop looking for love....love finds you. Good Luck!

8. Accept others and Give Love to others

If you want others to accept you then you must accept other for who they are. Don't try to change anyone. Just see the good in them and only focus on that. In time you will see the things you disliked about them either vanished or don't bother you anymore. Remember what you focus on you get more of. So focus on good and you get more good to focus on.

Accepting others is similar to loving them because you allow them to be themselves. You can also, call an old friend and tell you miss them, call your parents to them you love them, or even give a compliment to a stranger.

9. Forgive yourself

We all made mistakes now it's time for forgiving yourself. It's okay you did the best you could have done base on the circumstances at that time. Please note, everything make you a better and stronger person. Also, everything happens for a reason Lastly, everything is as it should be. You are now in a place where you can take control of your life.

10. Take Control

Now it's time to take responsibility for your life and set goals at achieving the dream life you deserve. You deserve the best and when you love yourself completely you would realize this.

My Journey To Fulfulling My Dreams.......So Why Blog?

“Too often we are so preoccupied with the destination, we forget the journey.” `Unknown

I feel like have or will read any book on the manifestation of your dreams. Now it's time to put all the lessons and skills I have learned to the test. After you reading and reading and reading you start to see that they are all in some way or the other saying the same thing. I will discuss what I have learned in my blog as I come across the need to along my journey.

I choose to blog because I want to document my journey so when I do get where I will like to be. I can look back at the journey that made me into the person I became. I believe "The Journey of a million steps begin with one step". If you never give up no matter what challenges you face you will eventually get to your destination or may even change paths to a road that you feel is more joyful but you would have never realized this unless you took the first step. I also learned that you have to allow change that's where letting go comes in because there is a higher power with you who is also walking that path with you.

Letting Go!!!!!!!!!!

The Most Important Thing I Have Learned: To Let Go (Surrender)

When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be” ` Lao Tzu

When things go wrong this may seem like the hardest thing to do. But this is the foundation to manifesting anything into your life. You must let go or better yet surrender. To do this just accept what's going on in your life. Please understand that acceptance doesn't mean giving up or just playing die. Instead when you surrender you allow yourself to the see the situation more clearly so you can take the appropriate steps to change the situation. Or you may even realize that you do not need to change anything because there is a lesson to be learn from this situation which will actually enhance your life.