The Greatest Love of All: How to Love Yourself

THE GREATEST LESSON I HAVE LEARNED.....LOVE YOURSELF

There are many reasons why you may not love yourself but below is a list I have used to help me learn to love myself completely. Loving yourself in itself can be a journey. But remember you are all you have. Our true essence is love because we came from love.....GOD

1. Accept yourself completely.

Make a list of all the things you love about yourself and focus on them for a moment (maybe your a great cook, a great friend, or have beautiful eyes). Don't it feel good? Sometimes we are so focus on the negative we forget how great of a person we are. We all have flaws that's what make up unique and special.

2. Say I Love You...To Yourself

Every morning look in the mirror and tell yourself I love you. Sometimes I even say why or congrat myself on a job well done the day before. It may be hard at first but keep doing it.

3.Spend Time With Yourself

When you love someone you want to spend time with them right? So, spend time with yourself by doing things that makes you happy. You can go to the museum, catch a movie, go to the spa, or take a walk.

4. Start a Journal

This is the one thing above all that helps me the most. Because I get in touch with my thoughts. I get to express my true feeling. Even things that I don't feel comfortable sharing with others. A journal is your release system. With your journal you can say any and everything you like without worrying about being judged. Remember this journal is yours so make it yours. You can personalize your journal bt writing poetry or even drawing.

5. Let Go of the Past

Many times people or situations in our past have led us to think less of ourselves. You must release that pain that have imprisoned you. You must come to terms and accept the past and realize the past have no power over you.

6. Be Your Own Best Friend

Make sure you are always there for yourself. You must put yourself first. This is not selfish it's called self love. I love to help others but I learned if I don't help myself how can I help someone else? Congrat yourself when something great happen in your life. You must always want the best for yourself and take steps to acquire it while being your biggest cheerleader.

7. Date Your Self

If your looking for a relationship you have to remember you attract what you are. So you don't want to send out the vibration of desperation and loneliness. The Secret says you must act as if you already have it. So if you want a happy relationship then start by writing yourself love letters. You can buy yourself flowers. You can even take yourself out on the best date ever. Why wait for that one special person? Don't let pass you by.....you love yourself so act like it. They always say when you stop looking for love....love finds you. Good Luck!

8. Accept others and Give Love to others

If you want others to accept you then you must accept other for who they are. Don't try to change anyone. Just see the good in them and only focus on that. In time you will see the things you disliked about them either vanished or don't bother you anymore. Remember what you focus on you get more of. So focus on good and you get more good to focus on.

Accepting others is similar to loving them because you allow them to be themselves. You can also, call an old friend and tell you miss them, call your parents to them you love them, or even give a compliment to a stranger.

9. Forgive yourself

We all made mistakes now it's time for forgiving yourself. It's okay you did the best you could have done base on the circumstances at that time. Please note, everything make you a better and stronger person. Also, everything happens for a reason Lastly, everything is as it should be. You are now in a place where you can take control of your life.

10. Take Control

Now it's time to take responsibility for your life and set goals at achieving the dream life you deserve. You deserve the best and when you love yourself completely you would realize this.

You Deserve Not Thing But The Best!!!!!

The Universe knows you deserve the best....but do you????

You are the reason the sun rose today. Yes, the world revolves around you. If anyone differ don't listen. You must know your worth. What did I learn today? stop listening to others they may mean well but what is best for them is not best for you. We all live in our own world (due to our perception) and you are the captain of your own ship. Therefore, you and only you knows what's best for you.

You must learn to be your own consultant. There is always a voice deep within your heart that is always ready to assist when you call upon it. It's call your higher self.

What are your deepest desires?

What is keeping you back? Make a list.....Now cross them all off because they are all excuses or better yet the limitation you (your mind) have set up to keep you from achieving your dreams. Remember if you can believe then you can achieve. There are countless rags to riches stories. So what make them different from you? Are you less deserving? Of course not but you must know that you are so deserving of your dreams that you will not let any obstacle stand in your way.

Now Visualize your Dream.....

How do it feel?

What are you doing?

Doesn't it feel good?

Now wouldn't you want to experience this in your life? Then make it happen. How you ask...take one step at time. But you must realize that the only person standing in front of you and your dreams is YOU. Hard pill to swallow because we are all use to blaming others, situation, and time?? Well no more look in the mirror and tell yourself you deserve the best. (say it loud and say it proud) How do it feel? Do you feel some resistances? That's normal that's because deep down you don't believe it. You must work on removing those resistances. How???

First Step You Should Take is LOVE : (THAT IS THE SECRET)

1. Love yourself completely

When you love yourself completely you will want nothing but the best for yourself because you would realize you deserve nothing less.

My Journey To Fulfulling My Dreams.......So Why Blog?

“Too often we are so preoccupied with the destination, we forget the journey.” `Unknown

I feel like have or will read any book on the manifestation of your dreams. Now it's time to put all the lessons and skills I have learned to the test. After you reading and reading and reading you start to see that they are all in some way or the other saying the same thing. I will discuss what I have learned in my blog as I come across the need to along my journey.

I choose to blog because I want to document my journey so when I do get where I will like to be. I can look back at the journey that made me into the person I became. I believe "The Journey of a million steps begin with one step". If you never give up no matter what challenges you face you will eventually get to your destination or may even change paths to a road that you feel is more joyful but you would have never realized this unless you took the first step. I also learned that you have to allow change that's where letting go comes in because there is a higher power with you who is also walking that path with you.

Letting Go!!!!!!!!!!

The Most Important Thing I Have Learned: To Let Go (Surrender)

When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be” ` Lao Tzu

When things go wrong this may seem like the hardest thing to do. But this is the foundation to manifesting anything into your life. You must let go or better yet surrender. To do this just accept what's going on in your life. Please understand that acceptance doesn't mean giving up or just playing die. Instead when you surrender you allow yourself to the see the situation more clearly so you can take the appropriate steps to change the situation. Or you may even realize that you do not need to change anything because there is a lesson to be learn from this situation which will actually enhance your life.